It is true. Lloyd is behaving nicely—remaining stable, and “stable is good!” Dr. G added with an exclamation point to the top of my last report. This was probably a special treat to make up for the fact that we had to wait through Thursday, Friday, and an entire weekend to get the report after our most recent Doctor Day. Ugh—worst ever. I followed my difficult, but smart, vow not to read reports any more & had it sent directly to Mark. He extracted a sentence for me (it wasn’t good enough to just be told it was okay, I had to see something official) & included the Dr. G “treat.” He is so good to me.
This is true all the time, but it is especially true after the past few months. While Lloyd has been oh-so-innocently behaving himself, the side effects of his presence have been wreaking some havoc in Kristina land. I’ve got a new doctor in my personal arsenal: Dr. Rabin is now my seizure specialist. We met him in May to discuss my ongoing mini-seizures (my term). He asked if I had noticed any changes in my personality since my Keppra dosage had been increased to the highest possible level by Dr. G in January. I said ‘no,’ then he asked Mark—who promptly cowered and acted like I might kick him. I had been grumpy, but I just figured having a brain tumor would tend to make a person a little angry with the world. Turns out high levels of Keppra have a side effect of hostility, aggression, and mood swings. It had never occurred to me that I could blame my bad mood on my drugs—I’m completely unaccountable for my actions! Nice!
I’d love to say that I was taken off of the angry drugs, but instead I had another drug added to them. Now I’m mean AND stupid. Topamax, widely nicknamed stupamax, is a different kind of anti-seizure drug which we're using in tandem with my Keppra. Dr. R told me that if I could suffer through the first couple of months, when the side effects would be the worst, he thought I would be very happy with it. And suffer I have. My language abilities dropped back down to the floor. Were it not for Microsoft Word I could not have performed my job—I simply could not spell. I am back to having a very difficult time with names, even those of people I know very well. I dislike talking on the phone even more than usual. I get overwhelmed quickly if I drop a word, or if I feel like I am required to reply with any speed (ordering lunch at a stand, for example: I panic). Things are beginning to get better, but it has been a very difficult few months. I am starting to feel like myself again, as he predicted I would, but it has been a fairly dark process. I have not had any more little seizures, so I'm trading my language functions (& having a personality worth speaking to) for the possibility of driving again. Fingers crossed, I'm hoping to get the paperwork to start the process of reapplying for my license in September. The plan is to also start tapering off of some of the mean medicine (Keppra) then, so hopefully I'll be a little nicer. I am trying!
There is always good news, and aside from the new medicine I am really feeling quite well. Occasional grumpiness and inability to use the English language effectively are not the worst things that could happen to a person, especially when you've got cancer. I am healthy & feeling well, most of the time I'm sane enough to realize how truly happy I am, and I am doing everything I want to be doing. Work has been challenging and rewarding— the NFB National Convention in Detroit just concluded, and what an amazing event that was! Mark came with me (it was his first national convention), and naturally he got trapped in the elevator with the guide pony. He’ll tell you all about it if you ask him.
We have been working in our garden & have somehow acquired a small colony of praying mantises that we like to watch. We spent yesterday with my family by the pool, almost exactly as we did one year ago, July 20, 2008—the day before I had my seizure. The additions to the family this year were Lloyd and Nathan, but only Nathan got any attention or made any difference. How about that? A whole year, and two huge HUGE changes, and really only one made any difference in our day. He is now twelve pounds of squealing, cooing boy who is possibly already past the point of ever escaping the nickname of "piggle." And he smiles at me.Love, Kristina (& Mark)
Aunt Kristina has excellent taste in infant wear, though with this sly smile it hardly matters. Can you tell this boy is going to have the world wrapped around his little piggies?
